The Yamaha DTXpress is a good way to get back into drums but I think you'l find it limiting after the novelty wears off.
IMHO the best thing to do would be to get a nice accoustic kit and a set of silencers.
For around 500 you can get a gretsch catalina which is a lovely kit for the money.
Over time you can improve the kit with better cybals, a new snare etc but the electronic kit will still be a set of rubber pads that you'll find vaguely unsatisfying.
A bit like a Quarter Pounder with Cheese!?
